Do you know what relationship transformation is?
I didn’t really know what relationship transformation was until I turned 50 years old! At that time I came out about being pansexual, polyamorous, and into BDSM. I just could not be inauthentic about my sexuality anymore. And I wasn’t attracting the relationships of my dreams because I did not own my wants and desires openly.
This led me to dig deeper inside myself with the help of intensive coaching to reveal my blind spots or blockages that were getting in the way of me having it ALL! As a result of this deeper work I have become fully self-expressed and communicate my truth wherever I go and whomever I meet. I realized that I must do something new and different, be uncomfortable, be courageous, and put it out there if I was to attract like minded people and lovers.
That is relationship transformation! Now you may or may not have the same experiences as above with your transformation. However, to be clear, change is not transformation. Transformation occurs when we become aware of blockages that are stopping us that we have no awareness of.
What are you unaware of? Some of you may have just answered that question in your heads. And, we cannot be aware of what we are not aware of at the same time! Gotcha! That was a trick question, LOL!
This is the missing link, so to speak, that has us not being in the relationship(s) of our dreams. Blind spots MUST BE UNCOVERED for true transformation to occur! Otherwise we will continue to do the same things over and over again expecting a different result. Or we will continue to collect new information and knowledge while continuing to sabotage ourselves because the blockages are still there! INSANITY! This is why many programs do not work.
By the way, uncovering the unknown that is unknown to us cannot be done by ourselves. Otherwise we would have already done it!
“The course does not aim at teaching the meaning of love, for that is beyond what can be taught. It does aim, however, at removing the blocks to the awareness of loves presence, which is your natural inheritance” (A Course in Miracles, 1975).
Aren’t you ready for a miracle?
Light & Love
Dr. Rusty
